I writing about this because Im my opinion this is the #1 Reason for failure in network marketing. This is the hang up that stops most people in their tracks when it comes to building their MLM business. The truth is that you can not think and act out of alignment who you see your self as.
Discover And Align Your Self Image With What You Want
Self Image (Who You See Your Self As)
If going out to make new connections with people and potential prospects is required in order to build your business, and you don’t do it. It’s because one of two things. Either you’re just lazy which the majority of time isn’t the case, or being social and making new connections with people just isn’t in alignment with your self image.
How Do You Know If Your Self Image Is In Alignment?
When your self image is in alignment with the success your truly want, you feel good about doing the things required to build your network marketing business. You feel positive, excited, and hold a optimistic outlook on things to come.
But on the other hand, when your self image is out of alignment with what you want, you may experience a great deal of anxiety, depression, anger, and insecurity. You’ll give off these negative vibes when talking to people about your business because you don’t believe in what you are doing. It’s not in alignment with how you see your self… your self image. This is why you may struggle.
Your Self Image Could Be The Culprit In Other Areas Too
Anything you try to do that is out of alignment with your self image, your subconscious will reject it. This does not just apply to network marketing. This goes for anything. If you try to lose weight and you can’t see yourself slimmer or you don’t feel that you are deserving of a healthier lifestyle then it won’t work long term for you.
You may lose a little bit of weight here and there but if you don’t alter the self image along with working out, you’ll bounce right back to the size you were and may even pack on more pounds than you carried initially.
The self image is the cause of the emotional roller coaster in network marketing. The ups and the downs you feel have everything to do with your self image and less about your skills and abilities to sponsor and recruit new people (the how to).
Book Recommendations On Improving Your Self Image
Some books I have found which can help you greatly align and improve your self image is Psycho-Cybernetics by Dr. Maxwell Maltz. The information in this book will help you weed out and improve the self image you may currently have thats holding you back.
Human beings always act, feel, and perform in accordance with what they imagine to be true about themselves and their environment. – Dr. Maxwell Maltz
Also you may want to read See You At The Top by Zig Ziglar. He is one of the worlds most renown sales and personal development trainers. This book will give you the techniques to communicate better with yourself and to eradicate your negative self image.
The salesman’s self image has a direct bearing on his sales success. When your self image is solid you can go from one prospect to the next regardless of the reception you get. – Zig Ziglar
PS: If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads) – Click Here For Instant Access